it's ironic, isn't it? fixing something abstract when there's no actual form? when in the first place, it's meant to be..well, abstract! no rigid forms.

well i guess that's the challenge in life. life itself is abstract. emotions are abstract. and feelings are abstract. you can't really tell if your life would go on right; and you can't really be sure if your feelings and emotions are what you think they are, not unless you know what's "right".

fixing abstract things is not simple at all. it's like when you look at an abstract painting, you're uncertain of what you see. you're uncertain of what form it really is meant to let us see, or if there's a hidden picture behind the whole painting of it. or if there lies a hidden meaning behind the whole painting. it's not like you're fixing a broken chair, knowing how it actually and supposedly looks like. it's not like you're baking a cake, knowing how it actually tastes and smells like. and it's certainly not like cleaning your house, knowing how comfortable you were when it used to be clean. it needs a lot of thinking. it's not as easy as 1..2..3..

when it comes to screwing up, analyze the situation. a BIG sorry is a good start. then explain what transpired. admit your mistakes instead of trying to make yourself look good, 'coz it will most certainly screw things up even more. when you didn't mean to do those stuff, tell them honestly and nicely at the same time. don't ever get mad at them instead when they don't accept immediately your explanations. remember, their heads are still "hot" at that time.. you may never be sure if the two (or three) of you will be ok already, but at least you tried. also, give each other time to think and cool down. don't rush things up.. moreover, never ever forget to pray. God knows what the "right" really is, so always ask for his intervention. he's the ultimate know-it-all.

when it comes to a dilemma about love and infatuation, take into consideration how you "fell" for the person. if it's just a sudden surge of admiration, perhaps it's infatuation, and it's expected to fade away soon enough. if it's love, well, you'll be willing and have the commitment to do almost anything to prove it to the other person. but of course, you should be true; never ever play with a person's emotions, it's just flat wrong. and also, give yourself time to think about it. it's always better to be sure. moreover, never ever forget to pray. God knows what the "right" really is, so always ask for his intervention. he's the ultimate know-it-all.

oh well.. that's life.. you just have to trust in yourself and in God with what you do, especially when you screw up with your bestfriends, close friends, friends, lovers, and what have you..

just try your best.. we all know it's hard to go on fixing something abstract..



so to all those i've wronged, especially lately.. (ehem, you know who you are.. m j ).. well, sorry.. i didn't mean to do those stuff.. thanks for forgiving me.. :) luv you loads!! and sorry for those stuff i might've did on purpose..

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